I recently went to KL for some time out of JB. And I'm proud to say I managed to do all that was on my list of to-do list.
I managed to visit my ill cousin, my bed-ridden aunty at Setia Wangsa and also visited an out of touch aunty who lived in a beautiful home at Desa Sri Hartamas.
Most importantly I brought my two younger daughters to visit their paternal grandparents, aunty, uncles and cousins.
Many people I know are impressed with my ability to still be very close to my former in-laws. My reply to this is that whatever happened between my chldren's father and I are solely between us. His family are still my children's family and that tie will never be severed. Furthermore having three daughters; their father, paternal grandfather and paternal uncles will always be responsible for them. What with the wali issue and all.
We spent a few days in Rawang and the girls managed to spend some quality time with the father's side. They are lucky to have a kind uncle with a lovely wife who loves the girls to the moon and back.
Divorce is ugly but it is up to the individuals involved to react positively to the situation.
I'm glad I reacted well to my divorce. Life goes on. Allah knows what is best for me.
Insya Allah.
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